Nigerian actor Kanayo O. Kanayo has sparked a debate about societal expectations and pressures on single women, particularly those who remain unmarried by the age of 33. The actor likened their situation to a “state of emergency,” emphasizing the growing urgency to settle down as they approach their mid-30s.

Kanayo attributed this phenomenon to lifestyle choices many women make in their early 20s, often prioritizing relationships with wealthy, older men over younger suitors with genuine intentions.

“Some girl will be in the university at 18, 19, 20, and she starts dating a very rich guy, sometimes very old too. Because the guy has either gotten her a car or a house, she refuses the advances of younger men with real intentions. To her, she’s operating on a very high level,” Kanayo explained.

According to the actor, this pattern frequently continues into a woman’s mid-20s, leaving her with fewer prospects by her late 20s and early 30s.

“From 22, she goes on to 24, and even if she quarrels with this guy, she finds another similar one. Before you know it, she’s 25 or 26, unmarried, and has left the university. By then, younger men are no longer finding her as attractive,” he added.

Kanayo highlighted the societal urgency that often emerges as women approach their 30s and beyond, transitioning from a carefree attitude to fervent prayers for a life partner.

“At 23, she’s a flex. At 28, she becomes a prayer point. After 33, she’s declared a state of emergency. Husbands will not come at that level of 33 years. Some get to 35 unmarried, thinking they’re still having fun. They’re not having fun—they’re in a state of emergency, praying for anyone,” Kanayo said.

The actor’s remarks have sparked mixed reactions, with some agreeing with his observations and others criticizing the societal pressure placed on women regarding marriage and timelines.